No encounters are the same, just as no two people are alike. Every time, my goal is to make sure that we enjoy the maximum of each other’s presence and share intimacy and laughter and joy.
As a body-positive, sex-positive individual, I genuinely enjoy sharing many facets of sexuality and intimacy with people. The journey is fun, but everything leading up to it is part of the adventure. I promise you will feel comfortable and reassured when we meet. 😊
One of the reasons I insist on lunch or dinner dates is to make sure we take the time to talk about all sorts of things, our desires, fantasies, comfort levels, and worries. My goal is always to ensure you feel the most confidence going into our date that you will have a great time.
If you’d like a play-by-play of a typical lunch or dinner date, they generally go something like this:
6:25 PM – A handsome gentleman nervously awaits his date at the upscale restaurant he’s invited her to. He continuously checks his watch, worried she will not find the restaurant or ghost him. He plays with his fingernails and rearranges the cutlery multiple times, discreetly, so no one will see him fidgeting.
6:27 PM – Two minutes have passed, but it seems like hours, nay, eons have passed since he last checked his watch.
6:28 PM – A rustle of fabric passes through the front door. He eagerly lifts his head in anticipation, but it is not his awaited beauty.
6:35 PM – Like old clockwork, she awkwardly fumbles through the door and laughs at herself for being so clumsy. Her smile radiates outwards; he can sense her warmth from the entrance. He sighs in relief, not realizing he had been holding his breath slightly in anticipation.
6:35 PM – After an initial hug hello and a customary “you look great! no, you look great!” exchange, she sits across from him and apologizes for being fashionably late. She explains it because of her European upbringing and that being late is the norm in France.
7:30 PM – As the evening passes, the awkwardness slowly dissipates into a gentle flow of laughter, smiles and endless questions about each other’s lives and passions. Each course is better than the last and being together feels like the most natural thing.
7:45 PM – “So, what do you like?” she asks coyly. He tells her about his sexual fantasies and the things that make him tick. She shares in return how her body responds and the things she loves.
9:00 PM – By the time they’ve ordered dessert, the tension is palpable. They may not be saying anything, but they both know the other is fantasizing about undressing them.
9:30 PM – The bill has been paid, a generous tip has been left to our fantastic wait staff, and off we go to settle into each other’s arms for a few hours of a passionate embrace.
9:45 PM – Arrival at the hotel. Giggles as we flirt in the elevator and laugh our way towards our room.
9:50 PM – While he heads to the bathroom for the customary pre-coitus shower, she quickly changes into the fancy lingerie she’s brought because she typically doesn’t wear a bra on dates.
9:55 PM – Body thoroughly scrubbed (everywhere!) and mouth freshly washed, he emerges from the bathroom to find a bombshell awaiting him to finish their evening in style.
– Scene – (Everyone claps)